Remember when you held your brand new baby in your arms for the first visit to the pediatrician’s office, and the friendly, kind, and gentle doctor you so carefully selected after dozens of interviews with other qualified doctors turns into some sadistic maniac who wants to pierce the tender flesh of your infant to get a blood sample? And then he wants to shoot her up with some sort of vaccine that you know, despite more than 40 years of FDA scrutiny, could still cause children’s ears to fall off or something equally as awful. And you held it in as long as you could, but there you are, at the front desk, checking out, with tears quietly smudging the ink that lets the secretary know when you need to come back.
Those are the kinds of days when it sucks to be a Mom. The days where, despite your best efforts and intentions, someone hurts your child.
Unfortunately, the sucky days don’t end when the vaccines are done. The boo-boos get bigger, and based on my experience, they aren’t as quick to heal as they are when your kids are small.
So even though I could jump for joy over the fact that my daughter’s version of Prince Charming (who from this point forward shall be referred to by the name I called him – Prince Are You Freakin’ Kidding Me?), seeing her hurt puts a damper on my celebration. Let the air out of the balloons; put the noise makers away; throw the cake in the freezer. I’m actually not sure who cried harder over the break up – Brighid, because she broke up with Prince Are You Freakin’ Kidding Me; or me, hurt to the core at seeing her cry.
As much as I love the job, there are just days that it sucks to be a mom. When you realize you can’t protect them from every bump, bruise, and broken heart, it breaks YOUR heart.
Thank goodness for Ben and Jerry.
Not sure all that is going on, but my heart breaks for both of you. As the mom of 2 girls, can I say been there, done that. Sometimes, seeing their pain is so much worse than the pain we have ever felt first-hand. Hugs to you and your lovely daughter. Let her know, that my oldest had to go through alot of heartbreaks before the right one came along, and now they have two sweetest of all kids of their own. Pixie dust to you both.
Thanks, Debbie! I know she’ll bounce back and be fine – and so will I 😉 It’s tough, though, when it’s your first real love. But keep her in mind if you know any young, single, sweet guys!
I certainly will, Anna. Again, hugs to you both.
I’m so sorry. Hugs to the both of you. It’s amazing how quickly and unexpectedly some turn into toads. There are days it does really suck being a mom. Wish us mom’s were given a magic wand in the delivery room.