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Jack the Salmon Slinger – or Children Whose Moms Should Be Smacked

As I was sitting enjoying a lovely dinner out recently, I was introduced to the most stealth of toddlers.  It wasn’t a formal introduction, where I got to look him in the eye and shake his hand, tell him how much I admire his work.  Our introduction was a sneaky one.  What is that slimy feeling on my foot?  What is that fishy smell in my daughter’s handbag?  What is that wet stuff in my hair?

baby flinger

And there he was.  His back was turned to us, but we recognized him immediately.  Jack the Salmon Slinger.  We have encountered his kind before.  Cereal Chucker.  Spaghetti Shooter.  Lima Bean Launcher.  They are the babies who express their dislike of certain foods by flinging them – or even more stealthily, dropping them – on the floor around them.

What irked me most about Jack the Salmon Slinger was not Jack himself.  I’ve had my own babies try this sneaky route out of eating foods they didn’t like.  The person that pissed me off most in this situation was the Slingers Mom.  Let’s call her Wino-na.

As Wino-na downed copious amounts of African white wine, she blindly took the food from her own plate I don’t think she enjoyed and broke it into tiny, toddler sized pieces, and without looking, she dumped them on the plate in front of Jack the Salmon Slinger.  Faster than Wino-na could pile up mounds of salmon, Jack was snagging them off of his plate with his left arm, and as if it was spring loaded, the arm would snap back, releasing the offending salmon, propelling it in various directions behind him.  Where I sat.

My daughter, who alternately rolled her eyes and sighed in disgust, while picking pieces of salmon out of her handbag and off of her sandals, said, “What are you supposed to do to stop that?”

That, my sweet daughter, is called parenting.

You don’t sit there, completely oblivious to the tiny human being sitting in the high chair next to you, while you drink more wine than the college of cardinals during Papal election.  You glance over at the little guy once in a while, see how he’s making out, be sure he hasn’t flipped himself backwards out of the high chair – which Jack tried to do a couple of times as the mountain of salmon grew before him.

baby food flinger

Where was Jack’s dad, you might ask.  Well, poor dad was at the other end of the table, alternately running up to the beautiful Boma buffet and putting in his own best effort at keeping Jack the Salmon Slinger’s sister, Suzy the Chicken Finger Flinger, from making her own food throwing tornado.

Would it kill you to take a glance in the direction of your child?  Make some eye contact?  Put the wine down for a minute and chat with the little guy, maybe slipping in a bite sized piece of salmon into his mouth while he’s laughing at you entertaining him?

I hear people ask often what’s wrong with kids today.  There’s nothing wrong with kids.  Ask what’s wrong with their parents.  We’re so busy connecting with the global community anymore that we sometimes forget to slow down and connect with our own dining room table.

Where Jack probably does Sling Salmon.  But maybe if Wino-na glanced in his way once in a while, she’d know what those of us sitting near him knew in the first five minutes.

The boy just doesn’t like salmon.

One Reply to “Jack the Salmon Slinger – or Children Whose Moms Should Be Smacked”

  1. Anna, we ran into a few “slingers” on this past Disney trip..not that a Disney trip is required to have an encounter with a “slinger” they can be found locally. But rather than the parents being distracted by glasses of wine, perhaps we just didn’t dine in the locations that served wine, we noticed on this trip how many parents were more involved with their cell phones than their children. This really is a big pet peeve of mine. Some might say it is because, as my grandkids tell me, I have a dumb phone. One that is used for just calling people. I don’t surf the net on it, I don’t keep up with any social media, and I don’t even text on it. I have that capability I simply don’t choose to use it. What gets to me is how many families I saw on this trip that instead of spending really quality time with their children were instead letting the entire world know where they were and who they were with. For heaven’s sake….These people are no doubt spending a considerable amount of money taking their littles to Disney. They have talked about it, planned it, saved for it and now now that they are actually on the trip with these children they spend more time interacting with their phones than their own kids. We saw it in restarunts, buses, lines for rides, on the rides, walking in the parks, etc. You name it, we saw people on their phones. These are the same people who will come back complaining that that they spent a whole lot of money and the trip was just “okay”. I wanted to scream at them, “Look around people. You are in Disney World. With your kids. Blink and they will be all grown up. Take the time to enjoy this time with them. ” So, yes, Anna we ran into quite a few slingers, even on the buses. But, since Mom and Dad were very distracted by some very important “tweet” or something else they needed to take care of little slingers are on their own. At least until they get their own phone…..

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